Confidence is not “they will like me”Confidence is “I will be OK if they don’t”. 

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#Reset your #Mindset

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I am a RECOVERING PEOPLE PLEASER and part of me still has a little of that inside! I hated the thought of someone thinking wrong of who I was. I hated the thought of disappointing others. I hated the thought of negative opinions of me. 

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I used to let those fears control my choices of my day! I would disappoint myself to ensure others happiness for fear of upsetting them. 

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It wasn’t until I started to embrace and listen to the things I needed to hear to boost my confidence, learn to say no, learn to not fear OR let what others thought/said about me –> control me. OF COURSE it does still cross my mind. It does still have a little control, that’s human nature, BUT it doesn’t control me like before.  

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I learned that I needed to LOVE me and honor myself. I have ideas, dreams, goals, and if someone else doesn’t like them or agree with them, it’s not their ideas, dreams, goals to live. 

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Reset your mindset. One of my goals is to inspire others to feel empowered. To feel comfortable. To feel confident. To have self worth. To lead by example. 

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It’s time to take control. You are worth it too! If YOU are ready to LOVE yourself and reset your mindset and want that extra support and motivation along that journey JOIN ME. 

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